You're Not Crazy--You've Been Called.

You're Not Crazy—You've Been Called

You've felt it, haven't you? That inner whisper telling you there's something more, something bigger waiting for you. A dream that won't leave you alone. A vision of who you could become. You're not crazy for feeling this. You've been called and appointed to walk in your dreams.

Life is devastatingly short. The days slip away faster than we'd like to admit, and before we know it, we're looking back with regret about the things we didn't do, the risks we didn't take, the dreams we postponed indefinitely. Don't be that person. Don't be the procrastinator haunted by "what if."

The real barrier between you and your dreams isn't ability—it's fear. And fear thrives in darkness, in the spaces where we don't take action. The good news? Confidence isn't something you're born with; it's something you build.

Dismantling Fear Through Action

Fear loses its power the moment you take the first step. Confidence isn't the absence of fear; it's the willingness to act despite it. 4 You build confidence through experience, through trying things, failing, learning, and trying again. Every time you push through that fear, you're rewiring your brain, telling yourself that you're capable.

The path forward starts with identifying what's holding you back. Is it an old insecurity? Uncertainty in your abilities? Something you've been afraid to name? 1 Journal through it. Get those thoughts out of your head and onto paper. Once you see them clearly, you can create a game plan for growing through them.

Building Unshakeable Confidence

Confidence isn't just something you feel—it's something you embody. The way you carry yourself sends a message to the world and, more importantly, to yourself. 2 Stand tall. Make eye contact. Speak with intention. When you adopt confident body language, you're not faking it; you're literally rewiring how you feel about yourself.

Replace your negative self-talk with powerful affirmations. Instead of "I can't," say "I can learn." 2 Instead of doubting yourself, remind yourself daily: "I am capable of learning and growing in the face of adversity." "I am enough." "I trust myself to handle whatever comes my way." 3 These aren't empty platitudes—they're tools that reshape your inner dialogue over time.

Practical Steps to Walk in Your Dreams

Dress for success. When you have a big moment coming, wear something that makes you feel bold and powerful. Appearance influences confidence. 2
Celebrate your past wins. Before stepping into your next challenge, review what you've already accomplished. Your prior success is proof of your capability. 8
Find a mentor or role model. Identify someone who embodies the confidence you aspire to. Study their behavior. Let their example inspire you when doubt creeps in. 3
Set boundaries and stop people-pleasing. High self-esteem becomes impossible when you're constantly putting others' needs before your own. 7 Learn to say no without guilt.
Take care of your body. Exercise, move, breathe. Physical wellness directly impacts mental confidence. Even a simple walk a few times a week creates measurable change. 6
Empower yourself with knowledge. The more you know, the more confident you become. Research, study, learn from people who've done what you want to do. Knowledge is power. 6

Stop Procrastinating—Start Living

Every day you delay is a day your dreams don't get to exist. Every moment you wait "until you feel ready" is a moment someone else is out there doing what you're meant to do. You will never feel 100% ready. Confidence doesn't come before action—it comes through action.

The time is now. Not tomorrow. Not when you lose the weight, get the degree, or feel more prepared. Now.

Ready to dismantle your fear and walk confidently into your calling? Schedule your free 30-minute consultation today. Let's identify what's been holding you back and create your personal roadmap to confidence and success. Your dreams are waiting. Are you ready to answer the call?

Inspiring Your Life,

Paulette R. Baker - Coach/Visionary

Beauty and the Beat Sisterhood

Message me here: [email protected]

Referenced Links:

1 - https://allisonsueelliott.com/confidence-building-activities-for-women/

2 - https://www.comerica.com/insights/business-finance/how-to-boost-your-confidence-as-a-woman-in-business.html

3 - https://womenrisingco.com/articles/21-tested-ways-to-build-your-confidence-at-work/

4 - https://inpowercoaching.com/6-steps-to-authentic-self-confidence-for-women-2/

5 - https://www.betterup.com/blog/how-to-improve-self-esteem

6 - https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-self-confidence-formula-for-women

7 - https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/boost-confidence-tips